{"id":4445,"date":"2024-01-31T13:52:53","date_gmt":"2024-01-31T13:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/temanmama.org\/?p=4445"},"modified":"2024-01-31T13:52:53","modified_gmt":"2024-01-31T13:52:53","slug":"ini-penyebab-anak-tidak-mau-mendengar-nasihat-orang-tua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/temanmama.org\/?p=4445","title":{"rendered":"Ini Penyebab Anak Tidak Mau Mendengar Nasihat Orang Tua"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mendidik dan membesarkan anak memang bukanlah satu hal yang mudah. Hal ini dapat terasa sulit, terutama bila anak tidak mau menuruti atau mendengarkan nasihat dari orang tuanya. Bahkan, sebagian anak mungkin bisa membangkang atau melawan perkataan dari orang tuanya.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sikap anak yang seperti ini tentu saja bisa membuat orang tua merasa tidak dihormati dan marah. Pasalnya, mempunyai anak yang tidak mau mendengarkan nasihat dan perkataan orang tua akan sangat menjengkelkan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tetapi, sikap anak yang seperti itu bisa saja bukan sepenuhnya salah dari anak. Terdapat beberapa alasan yang bisa membuat anak enggan mendengarkan nasihat orang tua, dan hal ini penting untuk diketahui oleh TemanMama.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>1. Orang Tua Berbicara Terlalu Panjang<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hal yang paling membosankan bagi anak ialah saat mereka harus mendengarkan nasihat panjang lebar dari orang tuanya. Bukannya diperhatikan oleh anak, namun hal ini justru akan masuk kuping kanan dan keluar kuping kiri.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Penting untuk diketahui, bahwa anak-anak cenderung belum bisa terlalu lama untuk fokus mendengarkan, karena kemampuan dan rentang perhatiannya untuk memahami suatu penjelasan tidak sama seperti orang dewasa.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>2. Terlalu Sering Mengulang Nasihat yang Sama<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meski tidak panjang, TemanMama juga harus memperhatikan, jangan sampai kalimat, perintah, atau nasihat yang sama terus disampaikan berulang kali pada anak. Di awal, si kecil mungkin akan mendengarkan dan mematuhi nasihat tersebut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Namun, apabila nasihat terlalu sering diulang, TemanMama justru akan dianggap cerewet oleh anak. Akibatnya, hal ini membuat anak menjadi enggan untuk mendengarkan orang tua.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>3. Terlalu Sering Berteriak<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sesekali mengeluarkan nada bicara tinggi untuk menegaskan maksud ucapan TemanMama memang bisa membuat si kecil menjadi lebih fokus dalam mendengarkan. Namun, jika TemanMama terbiasa menggunakan nada bicara tinggi atau bahkan berteriak setiap kali memberi nasihat anak, hal ini justru bisa membuat si kecil jadi memilih menghindari TemanMama.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><strong>4. Tidak Memberi Anak Ruang untuk Berbicara<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anak-anak perlu merasa bahwa pendapat dan perasaan mereka dihargai. Jika orang tua selalu memberikan perintah tanpa memberi ruang untuk anak berbicara atau menyampaikan pendapat, jangan heran jika anak memilih untuk menolak mendengarkan perkataan orang tua.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Saat ini, TemanMama sudah mengetahui apa saja sikap atau perilaku yang bisa membuat anak enggan untuk mendengarkan nasihat dan perintah orang tua. Setelah mengetahui hal ini, diharapkan TemanMama untuk lebih bisa mengerti dan memahami sudut pandang anak.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mendidik dan membesarkan anak memang bukanlah satu hal yang mudah. Hal ini dapat terasa sulit, terutama bila anak tidak mau menuruti atau mendengarkan nasihat dari orang tuanya. Bahkan, sebagian anak mungkin bisa membangkang atau melawan perkataan dari orang tuanya. 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